The New Mummy Tummy Rub
Pregnancy can play havoc with your sex life.
My girlfriend Ronnie was one of the most playful and sexy girls I know...
That was before she had her baby.
After she became a mommy, some part of her girlish enthusiasm got lost
in the maze of night feedings, diaper changes, and grueling schedules.
The New Mummy Tummy Rub is the ritual I suggested she try. She loved
it. And it brought things back to normal for her.
You may want to try using the same ritual for yourself before giving
birth (or anytime within the first six weeks after your delivery).
What You Need
- Cocoa or shea body butter
- Foreplay Music CD
How You Do It For Yourself
- Rub your hands together to create a positive charge.
- Focus and send loving energy to the palms of your hands.
- Lather your hands and stomach with body butter.
- Begin by making tiny circles around your belly button.
- Gradually make
larger and larger circles.
- Send positive and loving energies to your womb, sex centers, and
lower back.
- Take
your time. Go Slow. Make complete circles.
How He Does it For You
- Light some fragrant candles.
- He sits on the bed or floor with his back resting against a firm
surface.
- You sit in front and between his legs.
- Adjust so you both feel comfortable (feeling close is important).
- He holds you from behind, wrapping his arms around you in a loving
embrace.
- Allow your head to fall back and totally relax into his safe and
secure arms (spend some time leaning on his masculine strength
for an emotional healing).
- He uses this time to express his gratitude, appreciation, and love.
- Next, he lathers up his hands with body butter and begins to rub
in tiny clockwise circles from your belly button out, making each
circle bigger than the last - moving outward.
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