Creative Masturbation
Practice makes pleasure.
In Tantra, creative masturbation is a Meditation. The
benefit of masturbating (without orgasm) is to build up your
sex-energy. And sex-energy is the key ingredient in charisma
and sex appeal.
Once you have tried this for a while, you’ll never want to go back.
To "ramp up" your sex energy, you should masturbate several times,
stopping just short of orgasm each time.
Lovers can do it alone or in the presence of each other.
What You Need
- Privacy
- Silence
- Lubricant
How You Do It (solo)
- Sit or lay down in an easy and comfortable position.
- Close your
eyes and let your body relax.
- Begin to focus on your sex center.
- Now imagine you are sending warm waves of sensual light to that
region.
- Begin to breathe deeply...all the way from your stomach up through
your nostrils (allow your entire body to relax).
- Warm your hands by rubbing them briskly together and then add a dab of lubricant to your sex center.
- Using very little physical effort, begin masturbating. Focus on the feeling of your hand on your genitals.
- When you feel yourself becoming aroused, allow all of your muscles
to be limp. DO NOT TENSE UP (sex energy will now spread across your
entire body if you stay relaxed) Relaxation and focus is the name
of this game.
- Relax and breathe as your desire builds. Try to stay aroused and on the edge of orgasm for about 20 minutes.
- It takes about 20 minutes of continuous stimulation for the orgasmic
energy to spread throughout your entire body. The energy will be perceived
by others as raw sensuality.
How to Creatively Massage a Woman.
The C-Spot Teaser
Go around it in circles softly and rhythmically with
a lubricated finger. Watch her, and listen to her body for feedback
once you find what she likes. Keep it slow, deliberate, and consistent.
Keep circling, keep massaging, and keep watching her
body’s response.
The G-Spot Warm Up
The G-Spot is a fleshy area on the forward top wall of
the vagina.
To massage the G-Spot, lubricate your index finger and
signal to "come here" after insertion. Gently rotate your finger
back and forth across this sensitive area (Keep it slow and watch
her body for responses). As she begins to heat up, you may want to insert
both your index and middle fingers.
Take your time.
Be smooth,
slow, and gentle. Stay conscious and watch for responses. Make
subtle adjustments after receiving her context clues.
The A-Spot Warm Up
Also known as anal foreplay. Place a condom on your well lubricated
index finger. Swirl around the edges of the anal rim. Make tiny circles
moving just the first 1/3 of your finger. Do not insert.
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