The True Story
about MentalForeplay.com
A web experience to arouse
you from the inside out.
"Vertas"...the truth
is irresistible.
A wise man, famed for his learning and wit, was once asked by his students
why he so often illustrated a truth by telling a story. "That I can
best explain through a story", he said. (a parable about parable
itself)
Now here's the story...
There once was a time when "Truth" walked among men unadorned,
naked as his name. And whoever saw "Truth" turned away in fear
or shame and gave him no welcome.
So "Truth" wandered through the lands of the earth, rejected
and unwanted. One day, he met "Parable", strolling along
happily in fine multi-colored garments. "Truth, why do you seem
so sad?" asked Parable cheerfully.
"Because I am so old and ugly. People avoid me, replied Truth. "Nonsense!",
laughed Parable. "That is not why men avoid you. Here you go. Borrow
some of my clothes...and watch what happens."
So, Truth donned some of Parable's lovely garments. Lo and behold, everywhere
Truth went, he was welcomed with open arms...for the truth is irresistible,
when heard through a story.
That brings us to the story (and the reason) for which
this web experience was created.
There are over 8 billion web pages indexed at Google. That’s a
lot of pages. Of those, there are untold millions of pages dedicated to
the topics of sex, romance, and relationships. So what could lead
anyone to develop another one?
That’s a good question.
It’s my intention to create for you, my guest, a Web Experience...not
just another Web Site.
A site that's not just filled with content...but one that's experiential
for you, the visitor. It's interactive. It opens real feelings in you.
Before we continue, I have a confession to make...
Everything on this web site is designed to arouse you from the inside
out.
Have you ever wondered why placebos work?
The origin of the word "Placebo" is Latin for "I shall
please"...and it refers to the mysterious and uncharted mechanisms
by which the power of suggestion can result in a physiological change.
As you explore MentalForeplay.com, you will begin to realize that
everything here has one intention...
To arouse you. And I mean everything. Every word you read,
every picture you see, every sound you hear, the romantic recipes, the
games you play, all have subtle effects on your arousal mechanisms.
Here's what I mean.
I believe it’s no accident you found this web experience
at this particular time.
For about eight years now, I’ve been deeply intrigued by the idea
of sexual happiness. I was several years into my marriage and loving it,
but like so many other couples, our sex had started to become a bit routine.
And that’s how I stumbled across Tantra.
After learning and exploring Tantra, my husband and I became raving fans.
So much so, that for the past five years, I've lead workshops for thousands
of women and lectured on the psychology of Tantra to people around the
world. It was out of those workshops, lectures and coaching sessions that
the concept of Mental Foreplay was born.
You may be asking yourself the following:
What exactly is tantra?
That's a very good question - one I get a lot. So, in order
to answer you best, let me go back just a bit.
The word Tantra means to weave. Here's my personal definition
of Tantra...
“Tantra is the art of bringing more than your
body to the bedroom. Tantra says that sex is more than physical. It's
an energetic, holistic experience that integrates mind, body, and soul.
And...as martial arts is much more than just self-defense, Tantra
is about much more than just sex. Tantra is about
sex energy.
Tantra believes when you approach sex with reverence, you make
it sacred. Because Tantra is not a "thing", it can
never really be explained. It must be experienced. You can’t
just think about Tantra...you have to live it, taste it, breathe it, and
be one with it.
Tantra is a direct individual experience. Everybody's Tantra is different,
but here's one clue...
If you are not feeling it. “It’s not Tantra”.
Mental foreplay is a new approach to Tantra.
For many people, Tantra is esoteric and confusing...so we've transformed
many of the most powerful Tantra secrets into a more modern-day romantic
approach that fits easily into the 21st century.
What is mental foreplay?
Mental foreplay is whatever sparks, ignites, stimulates, or excites your
sexual imagination. There are many different types of mental foreplay
- books, magazines, movies, etc..., but ultimately, words are the mental
foreplay.
Mental foreplay uses the power of your own imagination to arouse and
awaken your sex energy, so that you can have a direct tantric experience
for yourself.
Why do you need mental foreplay?
Because arousal, desire, and sex appeal are all states of mind. For
women, mental foreplay is the most important part of foreplay.
A woman's ultimate sex organ is between her ears.
Take the case of Pfizer (one of the world's leading pharmaceutical companies,
and the makers of the wonder-drug, Viagra). On February 8th, 2003, they
announced that after many years of research, and millions of dollars spent,
they have given up the search for the female "sex-pill".
The reason they sited?
Arousal and desire in women was a lot more complex than they had originally
anticipated. Well, the truth about sex and women is that it starts mentally...then
becomes physical.
For women sex is MORE than physical.
When it comes to female arousal, it's not a straight shot...it's more
like a winding stairway gently leading her to heaven. There's no
shortcut...no elevator or escalator. The steps have to be taken in order...from
the first step all the way to the last.
Mental Foreplay's 5 Keys to Sexual
Happiness
- Mental Foreplay is based on the fundamental idea that all
sexual arousal and desire is really a mental process (Mind
+ Mood = Moment)
- Mental Foreplay is based on the 90/10
rule of sexual satisfaction.
( 90% preparation + 10% penetration = 100% satisfaction every time)
- Mental Foreplay believes foreplay is a journey...NOT a destination.
(The bedroom is too late to begin building sex-energy)
- Mental Foreplay says no one can turn you on like you can.
(Uses the power of your mind and imagination to ignite
and arouse your sex-energy)
- Mental Foreplay says relaxation opens the way for
sensuous feelings.
(Stress strangles sex-energy...nothing happens until you are relaxed)
What do women want?
The answer?...more mental foreplay.
Remember this one important fact. It's never the sex that lacks
excitement...it's the foreplay!
And foreplay is different for everybody.
Generally speaking, men like to fantasize and women prefer to romanticize.
Both are right. And either have the power to give you good Mental
Foreplay.
For most women, desire is built on a combination of thoughts, feelings,
and emotions. Any man who knows this has an unbeatable advantage.
Mental Foreplay: Are you getting enough?
Scientists tell us that the brain’s visual cortex lights up the
same way, regardless of whether you are actually watching a sunset or
just daydreaming about it. In other words, the mind does not know
the difference between what is real and what is imagined.
Your mind is the most sophisticated pharmacy in the world. Your thoughts
write the prescription, and your body-chemistry fills the order and delivers
the drugs.
That's why Mental Foreplay is so effective!
You can activate any desired feeling through the proper use of your imagination.
This entire web experience is dedicated to helping you find new ways of
triggering your own sexual responses.
How to get the most out of your Mental Foreplay
Web Experience.
- Feel the Feelings - Have fun reading just for the
pure entertainment value of fantasizing. Let yourself explore.
Let your imagination run wild. Visualize and feel what it would taste
like, smell like, and be like if you were living each romantic experience
right now.
- Keep it Playful -Take nothing seriously. These
are guidelines. A playful attitude is the best thing you can bring
to the bedroom. Being playful allows you to be open and takes you
beyond any limits.
- Try Something New. Have fun discovering each
other. Use our Mental Foreplay rituals, tips, hints, and foreplay
ideas to fuel your imagination and add more joy and passion to your
relationship.
What’s here for you?
The Mental Foreplay Web Experience is divided into three areas:
PLAY: Games can be a great way to stimulate your imagination
and have fun learning more about yourself (click on any of the following
links to play a game).
DISCOVER: Our 50 Best Romantic Rituals
- All of the following experiences can help you add more passion, adventure,
and romance to your relationship (click on the following categories
to see the menu of rituals).
EXPERIENCE: It's not Tantra if you're not feeling it.
Here are three areas of MentalForeplay.com to help you have direct experiences
of Tantra (click on any of the following links to learn more).
I invite you to use Mental Foreplay to your highest advantage. This
web experience is organic, alive, and here for you. Please let me
know how we can improve. If you find it helpful, come back often
and let your friends know about MentalForeplay.com.
Your
feedback and suggestions are honored and appreciated.
Let's keep in mind that love is the only real adventure there is,
and you and I were born to live it. Yours,
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